Chameleon Dating Software clients reviews

Almost 3 days trying to get video upload working, been told some ports need to be open (bla bla bla) that are ports the hackers etc use to hack your site, Malware and viruses..so why would anyone want to have them open.
My my site does convert videos (my other script SocialEngine) has got video upload and have no Problems at all.
Something smells fishy here.I am not an expert but something just does not ad up.Anyone know the course of the problem ?

I got nothing yet on top of my head for this and this could be anything. By the way, did it showed you any error when you tried to upload a single video? You might want to check the logs too as it might give you clues on what's causing this.